My Southern Belle Secrets

Friday, December 26, 2014

Friday, December 12, 2014

I want to experiment with anal play, but I am afraid it will hurt. Any tips?

A successful foray into anal experimentation comes down to three things: communication, relaxation, and lubrication. Communicate with your partner about your desire to be a little adventurous and be open about what feels good and what doesn’t to create a pleasurable experience for you both. Do your best to relax while you experiment. You can use Booty Eaze, a flavored preparation gel, to soothe the anal opening and make anal activity more comfortable. Finally, remember to lubricate using a silicone-based lubricant, like Pure Pleasure. Silicone-based lubricants will not absorb into your skin like their water-based counterparts, so you can be confident that your lubricant will last.

Monday, November 24, 2014

Pink Friday Sale

Black/Pink Friday Preview is here!

Get ready for Thursday, November 27th, starting at 5:00 AM!!!
 

This year I am breaking it into 6 "experiences".  During each time period I will be offering different products and at GREAT PRICES!  Watch the time frames for:

 

1.  SPA Treatment products.  From 5am to 8am and at 40% off

2.  Toys, lubricants and cleaner.  From 8:01am to 11am and at 30% off.

3.  The Men's Line.  From 11:01 to 2pm at a special price!!

4.  THE HOT LIST.  From 2:01 to 5pm and at 25% off.

5.  Truly Sexy Line AND Lingerie AND Massage Products.  From 5:01 to 10pm and at 20% off.

OTHER DEALS:

~Orders of $150 or more receive a FREE BASIC INSTINCT!

~Surprise Sales throughout the day! 

Discounts to be determined by time stamps on email, text, FB Private Message.  All sales will be processed on Sunday, November 30th.  Will need cc info to accompany order.  Checks can be mailed and products will be shipped after checks deposited.  Stay tuned for more SURPRISES!!

 
MELISSA HERNANDEZ
WWW.MYSOUTHERNBELLESECRETS.COM
7063473549
PUREROMANCE.MELISSAHERNANDEZ@GMAIL.COM

Friday, November 14, 2014

November's In the News

Pure Romance Nominated for Cincinnati’s Best Places to Work
The Cincinnati Business Courier announced the finalists for its annual Best Places to Work awards, and Pure Romance has been nominated as a finalist! Now in its 12th year, this program recognizes companies in the Cincinnati region that take employee satisfaction to the highest level—and we couldn’t be more proud that our corporate office is a part of this distinguished group!
Use the monthly newsletter to keep in touch with your customers!

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Like a Virgin

Like a Virgin is an alum-based tightening cream that can tighten the vaginal walls making penetration more pleasurable to a woman and her partner. The tightening of the vaginal walls may increase sensation during penetration, allowing the woman to feel tighter and the man to feel larger. Like A Virgin works for up to 24 hours. Like a Virgin should always be used in conjunction with a lubricant for added satisfaction, comfort, and safety. It can be used during intercourse or with the use of a bedroom toy. Like a Virgin is a popular and very effective product, but it does have some rather specific instructions for use. Use a pea-sized amount of the product and divide it in half: One half should be applied as far up into the vagina as possible and be pulled/wiped down the vaginal tissues (and subsequently spread over the tissues) to the vaginal opening, where the other half should be applied (just inside the vaginal opening). If you can’t reach very far into the vagina or are too uncomfortable touching yourself, you can put a pea-sized amount of the product on the top of a clean, empty tampon applicator and use that to apply to your vaginal walls. Also, the Like A Virgin cream needs some time to soak in to do its best work. This is not an “apply-right-before-you-play” kind of product. Because Like A Virgin’s tightening power lasts 24 hours, we recommend you apply it 2-4 hours before any intimate activity. Don’t forget to use a water-based lubricant, such as Just Like Me, in order to avoid any pain or dryness during intercourse.

Retail $19
Special $17

A Present that Will Change Your Future!

Become a Consultant

Some presents that you receive during the holidays end up collecting dust in the garage. Others get lost in your closet. This holiday season, treat yourself to a gift you’ll never let go! When you become a Pure Romance Consultant, you’ll have the financial freedom to spoil everyone on your shopping list and the flexibility to say “I’ll be home for the holidays”—or any other day of the year! Take control of your future, and live a wonderful life!

Standard Starter Kit — Valued over $450, only for $112! + get a 60% Buying Discount for the first 2 months

Deluxe Starter Kit — Valued over $1,200, at 75% off + get automatic Activation and a 45% Buying Discount for life**!

Premium Starter Kit — Valued over $2,700 at 75% off! + get automatic Activation and a 45% Buying Discount for life***!

**Purchase the Deluxe Starter Kit and receive automatic activation, plus a 45% buying discount for as long as you remain active.

***Purchase the Premium Starter Kit and receive automatic activation, plus a 45% buying discount for as long as you remain active.

December's Hot Tip

Baby, it's cold outside!

Stay home and cozy up with that special someone! Turn up the heat with your partner by climbing on the couch wearing nothing but your warmest blanket, and then invite your sexy costar to join you!

Don’t let the cold weather keep you from having hot, passionate moments with your partner.

Role-playing - Hand cuffs

Seductive and strong, Cozy Cuffs are perfect for when you want to surrender to your lover or want your lover to surrender to you.

FEATURES
• A great way to improve sexual experiences during foreplay
• As easy to put on as a bracelet
• Faux fur-lined for extra comfort
• Each pair of handcuffs includes two keys.

Retail Price: $19

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

November's Hot Tip

Give Thanks for Romance
This is the time of year to give thanks—and your partner deserves to know you appreciate all the sexy things they do for you! Give your special someone a list of every sexy thing you’re thankful for, from the way they kiss to how they softly touch your face to their toe-curling moves that drive you wild.

The New Fall Favorite

The New Fall Favorite
Women are raving about Body Dew in the irresistible new fragrance, Radiant Orchid!

Sunday, November 9, 2014

Truly Sexy

Our signature fragrance! Feminine and bold, one spritz of Truly Sexy will boost your confidence and turn heads. This signature fragrance from Pure Romance Founder and Chairwoman, Patty Brisben, is all you need to feel Truly Sexy.

Pheromone Infused Products

What are pheromones!? Here's a list of our Pheromone infused products.

Thursday, November 6, 2014

Diamond Collection: Wingman

Wingman
LUXURY C-RING
Every guy needs a Wingman. This exceptional, luxurious c-ring is made of high-quality silicone and its motor is whisper quiet because this Wingman knows it is best to keep the attention on you. You decide the pace based on how long you hold down its button. The Wingman is rechargeable and waterproof so he can always hook you up!

Features incremental speeds. Waterproof. Rechargeable lithium ion battery. Made of premium silicone.

Retail Price: $189.00 NOW $149.00

Diamond Collection: The Executive

Executive
DUAL-MOTOR SILICONE VIBRATOR
Meet the Executive, a truly unique vibrator that is sure to become your new bedroom boss! Featuring the softest, highest-quality silicone on the market today, this high-end, dual-action vibrator also contains dual motors that accelerate gradually based on how long you press its buttons. The Executive delivers firm, yet smooth vibrations to all the right places! Waterproof and complete with rechargeable batteries, this sleek toy really takes care of business!

Features:
Dual-motor design. Rechargeable battery. Ergonomically designed for the natural contours of a woman. Instant on/off function.Gradual acceleration. Premium silicone maintains and retains body heat. Unscented, non-porous, and hypoallergenic. Rechargeable with premium Lithium Ion battery. LED charge indicator. 110/240 Volt power adapter. Requires 3 hours for full charge. With maximum charge, lasts 50 minutes on high and 9 hours on low. Waterproof. Size: 5” length/5” girth.

Retail Price: $199.00

Diamond Collection: Cabana Boy

Cabana Boy:
Picture yourself lounging in on the beach underneath a tropical sky, sipping on a Pina Colada without a care in the world. Could there be anything that could make this daydream any better? I think there is…and it’s called the Cabana Boy! Now picture yourself lounging on the beach, underneath a tropical sky with a Cabana Boy meeting all of your pleasure needs! Isn’t that better? Pure Romance wants you to have the ultimate in luxury and pampering, so we have created a high-end dual action vibrator that is here to serve! Cabana Boy is ergonomically designed for the special contours of a woman and has a special bulb for g-spot excitement. With two of the most powerful motors and premium high grade seamless silicone, the Cabana Boy is everything that you expect from the top of the line, luxury experience.

With discreet dual motors that independently operate the sleek shaft and clitoral vibrator, your Cabana Boy Dual Action Vibrator allows you to request a pleasure combination so perfect, you’ll be tempted to tip. Silky-soft, virtually seamless premium silicone warms to your body for ultimate satisfaction. Vibrator is rechargeable with included lithium ion battery and 110/240 volt power adapter. Locks for travel. Waterproof. Length 3.5” / Girth 3”

Price: $189.00 $159.

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

#1 Selling Coochy Shave Lotion

Coochy
RASH-FREE SHAVE CREAM
Coochy Shave Lotion is the #1 most talked about product in our line and a customer favorite! Shave with this gentle, unisex conditioning shave cream and keep those unsightly red bikini bumps from crashing your most intimate moments. Sure to become a staple in your shower, Coochy smells great and is gentle for all areas of the body — in fact, it can do double duty as a moisturizing hair conditioner. Coochy is a must have! 8 fl. oz. / 240 ml.
Price: $19.00

Scents include: Pink Cupcake, Radiant Orchid, Exotic Escape, Original, Sweet Fantasie

Diamond Collection: The CEO

Ladies, I want to introduce you to one of our most powerful toys, the CEO. This vaginal vibrator is part of our Diamond Collection, so it is made from high-quality silicone. This captain of intimacy has seven powerful functions, but no one but you will know what you are doing in his office because the motor is almost silent.

Features:
Long, tapered shaft. Commanding vibrations. Ergonomic design fits your natural contours. Made from premium silicone. Whisper-quiet motors keep your business between you and the CEO. Rechargeable lithium ion battery. Requires 2.5 hours for full charge. With maximum charge, lasts 1 hour on high and 5 hours on low. Length: 6.5”, Girth: 3.5”.

Retail: $159.00
Sale Price: $119.00

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Host a Cookie Exchange Party

The holiday season is here and it’s time for a Pure Romance party with a twist. Get the ladies together for a cookie exchange party! Tell everyone to bake a dozen of their favorite cookies for each party guest—chocolate chip, oatmeal raisin, peanut butter, gingerbread, the options are endless.

Sexual Health FAQs

What are the benefits of vaginal exercisers?
Using a vaginal exerciser while doing Kegels (exercises that are performed by repeatedly contracting the pelvic muscles) helps women make sure they are properly exercising their vaginal walls and bladder muscles. This can improve sexual arousal and help restore and maintain vaginal elasticity.

Joy to the Girls!

Host a ladies’ night in that is more fun than a sleigh ride!

Melt away the winter blues with a Pure Romance party.
You and your girlfriends will appreciate a break from the holiday madness, and you will earn free product—so you can go on a Pure Romance-style holiday shopping spree! To book a party, call me or reply to this email!

Cash for the Holidays

Take Control of Your Life

There are over 100,000 Pure Romance Consultants throughout the world—and each one of us is giving thanks this November for the opportunity to make an unlimited amount of money without sacrificing what we want! We work on our own terms, never have to give up time with family and friends, and we have the confidence to know we can accomplish anything we set our minds to. If you aren’t in complete control of your life, your career, and your future, join my Pure Romance team today!

Sunday, November 2, 2014

November's Featured Product

Love Notes

Take advantage of falling temperatures and longer nights! With Love Notes candles, it’s easy to set a romantic mood in the bedroom (or wherever desire strikes). The soft glow and seductive fragrance are just what you need for a night of endless passion!

Cyclone

Grab onto to something solid, ladies—there’s a Cyclone coming through! This vaginal vibrator has a wide shaft with textured rings for the woman who likes fuller, richer sensations! Now for what will really blow your hair back: the speeds! The Cyclone has two speeds so intense, you’ll have to grip the headboard to keep yourself from flying away!

TWO-SPEED VAGINAL VIBRATOR
Get swept up by the Cyclone! With two mighty speeds, a wide head, and a textured shaft, you are bound to get carried away! Length: 7”; Girth: 5.25”. 3 AA batteries required.
Retail Price: $49.00
Discount Price: $43.00

Friday, October 17, 2014

FAQ'S on Joining My Team

Joining Pure Romance ..

Q: How much does it cost to join Pure Romance?
A: Pure Romance offers 3 Kits regularly and they range from $2,700 – $250. They are called, Premium Kit, Deluxe Kit, Standard Kit, and Basic Kit. But don’t be discouraged by that; Pure Romance has amazing sales often, and I offer potential consultants a way to get their Kits for cheaper…
Consultant Party – This is where the potential consultant hosts a party and a portion of her sales will go directly towards her kit purchase.

Q: Which kit did you purchase?
A: I purchased a Deluxe Kit when it was on sale for $499 and a 45% commission. I received over $1,200 worth of merchandise and business supplies. It also includes your very own Pure Romance website.

If I had to do it over again, I would have saved more and purchased the Premium kit which comes with over $2,700 in merchandise, business supplies, and a website. The Premium kit also comes with an amazing 50% buying discount and activates you automatically. As long as you stay active you will always make 50% on all sales.

Q: What is activation, what does it cost?
A: When you purchase a Basic kit or Standard kit you have 60 days to make a retail purchase of $250. There are a few ways this can happen, you host your own party and use those sales towards your qualifying order. You can start hosting parties right away or you can purchase a money maker kit. The Money Maker Kit is available for the first 60 days, it includes $300 worth of demo products that at a 35% discount will cost you $162.50 to purchase. Now if you purchased the Premium kit you are automatically qualified and can start hosting parties and making money.

Q:How much money can I make?
A: The average party sales is $500 at a 45% discount that means you have put $225 in your pocket that very night. The average party lasts about 3 hours, that is over $75 per hour. Now if you purchased a Premium kit and started off making 50% that would be $250 in your pocket and that is over $80 an hour.

Q:Is it hard to find parties?
A:Yes and No, this business is all about what you put into it. Promoting yourself every where you go and to everyone you meet is what it is about. Most of your business long term will come from strangers. And the only way to meet strangers is to get out there. While Pure Romance does have a few restrictions on promoting they are all understandable. You can use Myspace, Facebook, Web Forums, business cards, t-shirts, approved flyers and many many more avenues.
I personally have used the internet and striking up conversations with people I meet everyday.

Q:What kind of support is offered to new consultants?
A: When you join Pure Romance, you will have the support of your Pure Romance sisters and Pure Romance family. Pure Romance offers a online forum where we keep in contact with each other. We are spread out across the country, in Australia, South Africa, Puerto Rico and Canada. I will be available to advise you and walk you through. Signing up under me, I promise to always be open and honest with you, I will try my best to make sure I help you in any way that I can. If in the event there is something that I cannot help you with, I will get you the answers!

Pure Romance has changed my life in such a large way I want to share it with every woman I meet.

Sign up on my website or contact me to join my team today…

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Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Excerpt from PattyBrisben.com

There’s nothing sexy about breast pumps, pacifiers and stepping over toys on the way to the bedroom. As a mother of four, I know parenthood is one of the most amazing blessings life can offer, but I also know you have to work that much harder to make sure your relationship is getting the attention it deserves. We are so focused on the children, and understandably so. But it’s SO important to still feel sexy and feel like a woman again. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to boost your self-confidence and get out of the post-baby funk many of us often drift into before we even know it’s happening. It can be scary to break out of the routine, but it’s that adrenaline that will fuel your intimate life and get the fire going again, I can promise you. Until you change the game, it’s not going to happen on its own.

Friday, October 3, 2014

In the News!

Pure Romance was the proud sponsor of Football 101 in collaboration with the Marvin Lewis Community Fund and the Cincinnati Bengals!

Thursday, October 2, 2014

October's Sexual Health FAQs

Does alcohol affect libido?
Alcohol can definitely have an undesirable influence on your sex drive. While a glass of wine or a cocktail with dinner might help you relax, too much alcohol has the potential to put the brakes on your mood.

October's HOT Tip

Role Play .. with Halloween approaching, costumes are for sale practically everywhere you go—which makes this the perfect time to explore role-playing with your partner.

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

October's Featured Product

Excape
Do you want a bubble bath that soothes and relaxes—and enhances your natural sex appeal? You do, and we’ve got it! Excape is unlike any bubble bath you’ve ever tried.

Do Life Different

Pure Romance is offering an incredible Do Life Different training experience designed to empower, educate, and entertain—and you’ll want to be a part of it!

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Friday, September 26, 2014

Say Goodbye to September

Get all these goodies at 10% off til the end of September by purchasing directly from me.

Thursday, September 25, 2014

SHARE TO WIN!

Who wants to win a #free coochy!? Like our facebook page & Share this picture with your friends to WIN!

September's Special Offer

Right now purchase any TWO products listed for $35! Buy THREE for $53 or Buy ALL four for $70. Comment for details!

Saturday, September 20, 2014

Join my team!

You can join NOW for a fraction of the normal enrollment fee! Comment & I'll send you the information.

Saturday, September 13, 2014

September's HOT Tip

Keep Your Clothes On!
Make a hot night even hotter by not getting naked—not right away, at least. The longer you keep your clothes on, the more anticipation and arousal will build. Try kissing, touching, and massaging each other while you’re both fully clothed. When you reach the point that you can’t go another second without ripping each other’s clothes off, it’s time to give in and strip down! Find this tip and more like it when you read 10 Tips for Better Sex Tonight!

September's Sexual Health FAQs

What causes infertility?
Approximately 20-25% of couples have trouble when trying to conceive. Because this is such a common problem, Pure Romance Founder and Chairwoman Patty Brisben recently asked prominent fertility specialist Dr. Michael Thomas to share important information about infertility for her blog. If you or someone you know has been struggling with fertility issues, check out the overview Dr. Thomas provided at pattybrisben.com. And while you’re there, read some of the other great posts about living well, staying healthy, achieving your dreams, and making the most of your career.

September's Featured Product

Splash!
Feel revitalized with our invigorating new shower gel, Splash! The pH-balanced formula is gentle on skin, while fruit and flower extracts leave you clean and glowing. Plus, Splash is infused with pheromones to make you even more irresistible! Comes in five refreshing fragrances: Exotic Escape, Pink Cupcake, Radiant Orchid, and Sweet Fantasie for $18, Truly Sexy for $20.

Opportunity

Create the Life of Your Dreams!
Being a Pure Romance Consultant is more than a job; it’s an opportunity to create the life you always wanted and never thought you would have! You don’t just have the freedom to choose your hours or how much money you make, you have the power to make your dreams come true. Become a Consultant today—the only thing you’ll regret is not doing it sooner!

September's What's New!?

Radiant Orchid Fragrance!
The Pure Romance line of premium bath and beauty products now includes a seductive new fragrance: Radiant Orchid! Blushing petals and fresh pear combine to create this enticingly sweet and refreshingly bright new scent. Available in body wash, shave cream, bubble bath, after-bath oil mist, body crème, and body spray—so you can enjoy Radiant Orchid from head to toe!

The Party

At your Pure Romance party a trained consultant (me) will come to your house and provide a night of unforgettable fun for you and your girlfriends. From innovative ways to spice up your relationship to sexual health information you wish you learned a long time ago, a Pure Romance Party is anything but typical.

Pure Romance offers a wide variety of products from bath, to beauty, to lingerie, to that special personal toy you always wanted but never had a chance to buy :)

It will cost you $0 for me to come to you! What is better than FREE entertainment?! The best part about being a hostess? You get 10% of the party's sales toward your own order! For example, if the total sales are $500, that means you get $50 to spend toward your own order!

It is absolutely free for me to come to your house for a special occasion like a Birthday, Housewarming, Bachelorette, or for a night in with the girls!

Contact me for details, ask me questions, and maybe we can enjoy a fun night together! GA, AL, SC, NC, TN residents.
I also do virtual parties online!

May your nights be naughty!

Melissa

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Direct Sales takes Time

Earning income in a direct sales opportunity is similar to traditional "jobs". Ask yourself this.

How long does it take to learn a new job with a new company?
How long does it take to get a raise or promotion at a traditional work?
How long does a nurse have to study and learn, before she even starts earning a salary? And that's "if" she passes her courses and boards.
How many years do most individuals go to college in order to even start applying for professional jobs and just hope that they will be hired?

The answer varies from months to almost a decade! Direct sales is no different, especially if you are new to this type of opportunity. You must learn, grow, and educate yourself about your business. It takes time. Give it that time and that's when you will succeed.

Please be sure you are in our support groups on Facebook, they are a great resource for information. Please email home office if you are not sure how to be added to these groups.

The Perfect Job

A woman had been interviewing for a job and the owner asked what her expectations would be, to which the woman replied......

1.  First, I would like AT LEAST 40% commission on everyhting I sell.
2.  I would also like the opportunity to earn free merchandise every month based on my sales.
3.  I expect you to provide me with the very best website, free online training and free trips overseas.
4.  If I bring in and train any new people, I think I deserve up to 6% of their sales.
5.  I would like the opportunity to rapidly advance within the company.
6.  When I do well, I expect LOTS of praise and recognition, plus free products, special awards, fabulous trips, and cash bonuses!!
7.  I would like my friends and family to work here also.
8.  By the way, I need to set my own schedule and work only when it suits me and my family.

So.....when can I start?

After the owner recovered from the shock, she ROARED with laughter, "Lady, you can't be serious! You're dreaming! You'll never find an opportunity like that ANYWHERE! And if you do...come back and get me because I want to work with you!"

Well, the above is exactly what the Pure Romance opportunity entails. What I do, truly is a dream job! I love Pure Romance and I love to share the Pure Romance opportunity with every woman I know. I am living my dream....now let me help you live yours!

Sunday, August 31, 2014

Basics ..

I am a Pure Romance business owner. Pure Romance is an in-home party company and I hold parties to educate women on the benefits of romance and intimacy products. I sell the highest quality products, from lotions and lingerie to bedroom accessories. The best part of my job is I get to throw fun parties for women, give them tips for improving their intimate lives, and give away free products. My hostesses earn an average of $150 in free Pure Romance products, just for having a party!